Sunday, May 29, 2011

如果你觉得你有问题....

我相信应该有不少人都经历过,
即使自己已经很努力地付出,委曲求全,但是终究还是失恋,
而且不是一次,而是有好几次。

每一次的失恋,都会让人不断反省,到底是自己出了什么差错?
是自己不够温柔吗?
是自己不够好吗?
是自己不够体贴吗?
一直找出问题的根源,以为能够对症下药。

其实根本没有这回事。
如果一段感情破裂了,肯定是因为有很多问题,
但这些问题绝对不是出现在你一个人的身上。

有时候分手不是任何人的错,
有时候就是一句简单的“不适合”而已。

我发现爱情的发生其实很多时候都是因为“刚好”。
刚好你爱上了他,刚好你又发现他爱上了你。
刚好你们走在一起,刚好他一时鼓起勇气跟你告白。
就是这么刚好。

所以失恋的发生其实也是“刚好”而已。

刚好我不喜欢你这种性格,刚好你又不喜欢我这性格。
刚好我们都无法包容对方的性格。
刚好我们都不想坚持下去。


你不需要为这一切而承担所有的责任。
你更不需要为了这些事情而否定自己。
当你把心关起来,别人又怎么能看到你的心,又有什么办法能让你开心呢?
要记得,只有你自己才能让自己开心。














‎Girls are like apples...the best ones are at the top of the trees.The boys don't want to reach for the them because they r afraid of falling and getting hurt. So the apples at the top think there's something wrong with them,but in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy and the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree...” I copied this sentence from a forum cuz i think it's quite meaningful :)

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Super Duper Hyper AGREE!

-Mimi-

Lih Hong said...

宝贝你好会分析~^^

昕琴 ♫ said...

宝贝写的东西,越来越成熟滋味了!!

Jiayi said...
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Jiayi said...

很准又很贴切 ♥

ry@n said...

当心门关上后,的确是不容易有发自内心的开心

Sydney said...

what if you are not the top apple?

秀琪^^ said...

like it^^

杨宝贝 said...

most of the girls are top apples.
@@
if you're not then you can just wait for the right guy who's willing to pick you up.

路宝贝 said...

就是timing的问题而已啊。。。

李小纪 said...

那段英文很有意思
说得很恰当
爱情也需要勇气,如果不够勇敢,走不长远。

Anonymous said...

I hope by reading your blog would
be a stepping stone towards plucking an apple
such as yourself..... You are really an sweetheart fitting
for your name yang bao bei from hawtZer

MakE_LiFe_EasY said...

这个“刚好”也是需要很多的缘分。
世上哪有这么多的巧合?一切都只是偶然。

‎Girls are like apples...
LIKE!!

WenQi♥ said...

楊寶貝,妳分析得好準!!就這麼的“剛好”我失戀了.. 讀了妳這篇文章,就感覺到妳說出了我現在的情況>.< 好難過!!對!他也用了"不適合"這3個字來結束這段感情..
我可以轉載妳的這篇文章嗎?

Anonymous said...

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Some trees are tall; some are shorter.

Taller d tree requires more time for d climb; therefore for being the top one, she nid more patience and faith.

HOwever the apple oso nid2 consider some serious cases of "what if".

WiSh sHe a NiCe DaY !

Celine said...

宝贝,你几时开始写新的小说?^^

杨宝贝 said...

wenqi, 可以哦 :)

celine,已经在写咯

云娜 said...

呵呵!!!我“刚好”跟他说我们“不适合”这三个字。。。。